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What is unconditional love

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Think you know what features and aspects of unconditional love? I do not speak of what we might think or believe what love is a conscious level. Your subconscious has a program that allows you to accept and demonstrate the behavior, unconditional love? In the thirty years I have been in practice I only have five people who knew what was love is unconditional. The main reason for this is the time you were born, we all have fear, rejection and all the other negative programs that our mother is in her mind. These programs, which are active in the mobile memory fetus in utero. The soul and spirit in the body to cause the life that only know the unconditional love, but are blocked because our bodies, our minds as a result of all programs based on fear, are stuck in the memory of the mobile body during the first nine months period in the womb, the soul and spirit of these programs from activation at birth, leading to rejection.

If a child is born you know what love is unconditional, so they demand the unconditional love of his mother. If they do not know what she is crying and tantrums of children who are the mothers care. If they do not know why the child is the child or the discipline that can be avoided. This is done by the child as rejection and abandonment. If the mother of this action in the direction of the child, the child will feel the mother is withholding love, acceptance and recognition. If this behavior continues over aa year or older than the child is ten begin to accept and believe that the behavior of mothers is how to treat them is what love is.

If the child knows he / she is not the sex, the parents want is the rejection of other blocks. If the child did not want any kind of rejection by parents or the birth of an error or some other conflict, parents may think, feel or attitude or behavior, may cause a sensation that did not make the rejection in the afterlife. Religious beliefs that have been born in sin, most blockages in these programs. As a result, only 30% of children have the opportunity to feel wanted at the time of birth. This is reduced to less than 1%, which begin to grow.

On the positive side, if the mother has feelings about themselves support the ability to show true love, with the support of his family and has a strong enough mind to see a commitment to himself that they are not raising a child in the world and their parents, and assisted by the father in the same way, the child has the opportunity to be born in love in the world.

That is what my wife and I decided to do. It took six years in the relationship before we decided that we could have children without a rejection reaction that we felt as children. Few parents think of themselves or their families. It just happened. If we believe that our parents have had a fundamental control, we believe it is to make sure a child. This is a very important quality. Can happen only if parents have a strong identity and faith in itself. Very few people in their thirties, forties and even their twenties, when most people have kids. We were in our thirties, when our children were born, so that our identity, which had established.

We have also decided to only two to five years, as well, so there are no conflicts. He grew up knowing he could trust us and know that we will be there for them and not react, as in the negative. As a result, she was raised in unconditional love. You have self-esteem, self-confidence and self esteem. They have never been ill or suffered an illness at any time in their lives. Besides that, I never missed a day of school.

We have these decisions before having children, so as not to disturb their lives. We control input of your computer programming until 10 years old, so it is very important not to invade the space with the powerful negative behavior or attitudes and actions because they are afraid of us. We need to develop respect and trust in them.

Very few people know what love is and in what form. Some people can act on what they think love is by definition. The conflict is not very clear to most people, because they never had a model of love in their lives. Love is a quality that has a fundamental sense, accepted, approved, validated and recognized you as a child. To allow the values of unconditional love in your life must be born into a family which appears functional and practice unconditional love in their family lifestyle. If this is not learned in childhood or have not worked through his childhood issues of rejection, abandonment, is not acceptable, considering that not all rights, including the rejection, lack of value and many other feelings and emotions from dysfunctional families, then produce more dysfunctional behavior. Without these qualities, which has no self-respect, self-confidence and self-esteem. These qualities are grouped together, which means it can not exist independently of each other, all the functions in your life, or are not in a position to that of their children.

If we learn from a dysfunctional family, we can not know the causes, because we live in an illusion, because they are buried in our subconscious mind data denial. We do not want these feelings to work, leaving them blocked from our consciousness. They are still in our database but we can not find it. If I were a person with kinesiology (muscle testing), with a poor indicator of a device to determine if they are ready for all the negative feelings, attitudes and experiences of the past, so we can release, if no answer. Why should respond if a person wants to see the past, so they are with their lives? Because nobody wants to go back to the traumatic experiences of the past. They are locked so no idea why this way. Unfortunately, in freedom, but we have again and enjoy the struggle, suffering and trauma over and over again. We can be very unique and in a short time with the process of energy medicine. However, we have access to them to find the cause and core issues.

For over 80 years, the film industry and the media has misrepresented what is love. This has led to a serious breakdown in family life styles and social culture. It is not about romance or sex, unfortunately, has played in most media as love. What is love, is very different from the version of the media.

What is not love: The feeling of shock that makes us one. When his feet during a sweeping romantic or sexual attraction. Love is a feeling is a feeling. It must be from an internal source within us. It is something that is when a person who has the same attitudes, feelings and desires. Love has nothing to do with sex, although that is the way he played in the media.

How does this affect us if we have all the conflicts over the media about these people who are our idols, which leads to new conflicts? All you have to do is the number of young people who have returned from life in suicide. The number had risen 800% in the last 40 years. Many are lost because they can not find love and happiness. You will never be the model of the media. If your parents are dysfunctional to do if you find the model to follow? Many people attend seminars and workshops on personal development and transformation to find a new path in life. If you are already on the rocks, marriage counseling rarely works. Very few therapists are skilled enough to the cause, allowing you to choose from. First you need to know how to end the wrong choice, by changing behavior. If you can not figure out why the wrong choice to make again and again, to change behavior.

Unconditional love is a form of recognition, but something. Love is the kindness and attention, without excluding or control. It is the acceptance of others, since without the need for change, control, or to request a specific action. Love not only has to exist.

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